Updating the envelope system for financial planning

 

envelopes!

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I love the old envelope system. In case your mom never taught you about this, you decide how much you’re going to spend for food, housing, clothes, etc. and you put that amount in each marked envelope every time you get paid. When the envelope is empty, you’re out of business. (Actually, my mom never taught me this—her approach was basically to just save everything, and not spend at all until they pried it loose from her fingers.) Unfortunately, just don’t use cash anymore.

Nevertheless, it works. If you are really in debt, I do recommend that you move your spending to cash as much as possible. Freeze those credit cards in a block of ice and don’t use them until they defrost (seriously). Give yourself, your partner, and your kids a specific amount of spending money and when it’s gone, it’s gone. Renew when you get paid.

But since we live in a modern plastic and virtual world, can we create a virtual envelope system? Well, sort of, and it would help many of us to better money management.

First, set up a budget. OK I can hear the groans already. Don’t make this too complicated—savings, required expenses and spending money might be enough. Most people find it easier to do a percentage of income rather than a fixed amount. That way, you know what to do with any “found” money, pay raises, or freelance income.

Next, put the required living expenses (rent, insurance, utilities, etc.) in your checking account. In general, it’s best not to carry your checkbook around with you—you probably pay these expenses at home at your desk and not having the checkbook removes some temptation.  If possible, have your paycheck sent directly to this account.

Set up auto-pay and auto-withdrawals. You can either authorize the payees, such as credit card companies, to automatically withdraw from this account, or you can set up payments from the checking account to payees such as utilities. Don’t pay extra for this (some utilities are really dumb on this one).

Groceries are a special case. Certain unnamed hoity-toity supermarkets don’t accept checks anymore. If you do have any budgeting problems, it’s probably better to take out grocery (and restaurant) money in advance and put it in an actual envelope. Or use a cash card like Bluebird (transfer the right amount of cash into it each month). If all else fails and you have trouble monitoring this, designate one credit card for groceries and set up alerts to warn you when you’re getting near your pre-set goal (some allow this and will text you).

Now we get to savings. Again, you can set up auto-pay and auto-withdrawals from most investing institutions. I highly recommend NOT having your savings accounts in the same place as your checking. It’s just too easy to raid it when you need extra. For this reason I like internet based banks, credit unions that are different from where you have checking (so you have to make a special trip), or the big guys like Vanguard where you have minimum requirements.

I particularly love the automated options because it removes opportunities to make bad decisions. We all tend toward inertia. Making a decision every month to save is much more likely to fail than making a decision once, having the savings going forward happen automatically, and just getting used to those withdrawals happening.

Finally, make a list of annual or intermittent expenses (insurance, tuition, property taxes, etc.). Add up what it amounts to annually, then divide it by your pay periods. That’s what you need to put away if you don’t want to be surprised when they show up.

Don’t be afraid to create multiple accounts, say, savings for intermittent expenses, checking for regular household expenses, goal savings for vacation, retirement account, etc. Some internet savings (CapitalOne 360, for example) will allow you to designate “sub-accounts” and name them for specific purposes. You make the deposit and let them know which sub-account it should be designated as.

Mind-games? Sure, but sometimes these little tricks result in big improvements.

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Hitting the re-start button

 

 

beach in Key West

Certain places are the end of the world. San Francisco was like that when I lived out there, and Key West (from which I just returned) appears to be another. These are places that have more than their share of burned-out cases, but also a high number of people that decided to chuck it all and start their life again.

Key West is delightful in its acceptance of eccentricity, but also in the variety of ages of those who have decided to re-start their lives in some radically new way. The first morning our waitress was in her 70s, with a sequined beret, fingerless gloves, and a few other items of clothing people 20 years younger might hesitate to wear. On the way down, the plane seat right in front of us was occupied by another femme d’un certain âge who was head to toe in red velvet, and who I later saw in the airport kissing the much younger husband she had mentioned. Gives one hope, non?

But the point of this tale is to address all the guilt and regrets I hear this time of year, along with the resolutions to do better. Sure, I’ve got a few regrets myself. Okay, maybe a hundred. What I saw while in Key West was what I think most of us who are baby boomers (or younger) have experienced—you may have to restart your life several times. There are a few people among my clients and acquaintances that knew they wanted to be lawyers at 20 and will retire from that same profession at 66. But far more common is the person who started out as an attorney and is now a shaman, the investment banker who re-trained in Chinese medicine, the corporate executive who retired early to paint, and the divorcée who started an entrepreneurial venture. Technology and the demand for skills has moved so swiftly in the past 30 years that few of us could have known what training we needed “back then”. Few of us planned to get a divorce when we said, “I do”, and all of us believed when pregnant that our children would sail brilliantly from pre-school through the Ivy League to a high paying job, a devoted partner, and a long and healthy life. If only.

Then there are the regrets about not having saved enough, made poor investment choices, and bankrolled a relative or child that turned out to be a black hole. Our brilliant children sprout terrible problems, our competent and ambitious spouse develops a chronic illness, our boss is unreasonable, our co-workers insane, our company gives us the shaft.

What can you do about that history? Truly, nothing. None of us can re-write the past, control another’s behavior, or singlehandedly manage our employer or our clients. Didn’t lose the weight you planned, didn’t meet your savings goal? Um, me too.

On several mornings in Key West, I found myself waking up depressed. I, too, wanted to chuck it all and re-start in some tropical paradise where stress was low, seafood was plentiful, and I didn’t need a winter coat ever again. Or move to Paris. Or sell the house and keep only what fit in a back pack. Or…or…

Once I had my coffee and was able to shake off the effects of the previous night’s tropical drinks, I was able to think this through.

Just about every decision we make seems right at the time. Most of us try to make good decisions based on what we know at that point, or make bad decisions because we’re just too stressed out over something else to focus down. And, every time you make a decision, you close down other possibilities. This is why so many people have great ideas for a novel, but so few of us actually write one. Artistic types in particular may get stuck on the dime because even finished works are never as good as they were in the imagination.

A trip to Key West gave me plenty of examples of the possibilities of alternatives and creating a life different from the past, and people who courageously face what it takes to make that change. We can’t change the past, but we can re-boot and aim toward a different future. As long as you’re alive, it’s possible.

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That OTHER insurance you should worry about

 I just got a lovely letter yesterday from Blue Cross informing me that my current health insurance would soon be defunct and I better get online today and pick out a new one. And, what a surprise, replicating my existing coverage is going to cost more. I’m not going to get too worked up about this one, because we all knew something had to change with health insurance, right? But what everyone in the country seems to be trying to ignore is the other big health care crisis—long term care.

Thinking about this is hard, painful even to try to imagine yourself feeble and incapacitated. But, with modern medicine, it’s probably going to happen. As a dog trainer once said to me—if your pet doesn’t get killed in a freak accident, you’re probably going to be faced with some day putting them down. Been true with 2 dogs and 9 cats. The few accidents were the worst. Difficult circumstances are easier to handle with some sort of rational plan. You need one for the point when you’re no longer able to roar around on your motorcycle. It appears, given the fight over basic health insurance, that it’s going to be a long, long time before we get any kind of national consensus about taking care of the very elderly.

Think Medicare will take care of you? Ha-ha. Theoretically, Medicare can cover 100 days of service. Getting that service in actuality is pretty difficult—you have to be making progress on rehab, and you have to have spent 3 nights in a hospital. An awful lot of hospitals will park you in the lobby if you’re not out in two, and extreme old age and frailty is not something you can be rehabilitated out of. And even if you (or your loved one) can work the system, what’s your plan after 100 days?

Wowie-zowie it’s expensive. Think $250-$300 per day at the joints around here, and I’m not talking luxury apartment. Assisted living can be less, but real full-blown nursing care is usually a small room that you may be sharing with at least one other person. The more you can pay, the less you share, but some places don’t even have space for single rooms. Can you pay $100K a year in today’s dollars? Will you have a spouse that still needs to live on your savings and your Social Security? And really, when you need it you really need it.  Unless your retirement portfolio plus Social Security generates at least $100K per person in today’s dollars (or you’re willing to liquidate it all and don’t outlive it), you need long term care insurance. Okay, there are some more factors, but your personal set of facts should be discussed with a financial planner—I’m just giving you the pep talk here.

I’ve seen quotes for LTCI that range from $1,500/year (probably inadequate) to more than $8,000 per year, so I’m going to list the key factors that seem to influence cost. These are the basics you will need to think through:

  1. When to get it. The younger you are, the cheaper it will be, the longer you will pay, and the more likely you can still qualify. People in their 40s may be too young (depends on family history, whether your workplace offers it as a group benefit) and after 60 an awful lot of people develop health problems that make it difficult to qualify at a decent rate.
  2. How long you’ll wait before it kicks in. 90 days? 180 days? How long can you afford to cover 100% of the costs before you cry uncle? Lately, 180 days doesn’t seem a whole lot cheaper than 90.
  3. How much per day it will cover. Establishing your personal minimum and maximum requires some work with a calculator—taking into account other sources of income, and who else (your spouse) might need that income while you’re being cared for. Here’s where the cost of insurance starts to really break out—choosing a higher benefit preserves future assets but eats up current ones.
  4. Whether the benefit goes up with inflation. Nursing home costs have gone up much faster than the Consumer Price Index. What seems like a generous benefit today may be chump change in 30 years. I mean, my tuition at the University of Chicago in 1977 was $3,600/year. No, I don’t believe it either. Plans offer 3% inflation, 4%, 5%, and you also need to choose whether compound or simple.
  5. How long it lasts. Tell the agent when you’re going to croak and you can get the perfect term. Statistics say that most people kick off a little less than 3 years after entering a nursing home. If you’ve ever eaten their food or heard some of the entertainment, well…but, 3 years does give your family time to sell the house and re-arrange other investments if necessary. On the other hand, my daughter volunteered at the Mather for 5 years, and there were plenty of residents who had been around 5-7 years. My unscientific observation from her experience was that people who were single with no family to care for them tended to move into residential care earlier, at a point when they were relatively more healthy and lasted longer. People who had an involved spouse or children tended to be able to put off the move until they were much frailer. So weigh your support network as you select a term.

Do take a look at your own health and family history. But keep in mind that your personal habits and modern medicine might keep you alive much longer. For example, my mother’s siblings and parents all died in their 70s. My mother, who gave up smoking in 1963, kept her weight down, was happily married, and ate pretty well (none of which was true for the rest of the clan) made it to 90. Dad, with a very long-lived family, lived on his own until 8 months before he passed away at 96. I think it’s a pretty good bet I’ll collect on that long-term care insurance. Like most of us, I hope I’ll clutch and keel at an advanced age. But I won’t bet my money on it. Which is why I think LTCI is a pretty worthwhile investment.

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